Have you ever wondered what it is that makes guys fall for certain women? I've gathered a list of things women do that make men fall crazy in love. Some things are flirty and fun, while others are thoughtful and deep. The best part? You're probably already doing all 21 without even knowing it.
Men can't help falling in love with women who ...
1. Laugh deeply
2. Wear delicious perfume
3. Pout pink lips
4. Talk genuinely with complete strangers
5. Show passion
The next time you get carried away talking about something you deeply care about, look at your man's eyes. You'll see a look of love and adoration.
When a person shows passion for a cause, idea, career, hobby or even another person, they show depth of character. Men might not admit it or even realize they feel this way, but they love women who have a passion. Don't be afraid to be passionate and to talk about what matters most to you.
6. Connect with nature
7. Connect with deity
8. Are healthy and whole
Why is it so attractive to see another person working on their health and wellness? It probably goes back to our primal instincts: We want to mate and keep company with those who have the best chance for survival.
Eat healthy, work out and take care of your mental health. I'm not saying you have to be perfect, but I am saying be balanced. Seek to be whole. A woman who takes care of her entire self is appealing and, more importantly, happy.
9. Are unafraid to get dirty
10. Try new things
11. Show intelligence
12. Notice the little things
You know that sense of wonder you feel when you take in the intricate details of a flower, a song, a painting or a person's face? Guys dig that. Well, the keepers do. If a guy notices you noticing the little things, that means he notices the small stuff too.
Life can appear pretty mundane, which is why it's essential to fall in love with someone who sees beyond life's monotony. Nourish your ability to notice and feel more than the average person. Seeing the miracle in the everyday is an attractive gift you don't want to lose. It makes life fulfilling, joyful and adventurous.
13. Dance
14. Let quirks shine through
15. Sport sweatpants and messy buns
A lot of people will tell you differently - that you need to keep the makeup on and the hair curled to keep the fire burning. But, while getting dressed up for your guy can reignite the flame once in a while, he actually adores you when you're at your most casual - sweatpants and all.
When you're just hanging out, watching a movie or talking about your day, he thinks your messy bun and boyfriend attire are downright attractive (sometimes even more so than your perfect hair and fancy dress).
16. Love animals and children
17. Look out for others
18. Embrace being human
This list might make you feel like you have to be a perfect woman who lives high on a celestial pedestal. But here's a secret, guys actually aren't attracted to perfection; they're attracted to realness.
You are human. You make mistakes. You fumble, fall down and forget things. You fail. And that's okay. Own up to your humanness and find joy in it - that is true beauty.
19. Show sensibility
20. Smile
21. Live life
When you are you, not because you think he'll like it but because you're just being you, a guy can't help but be interested.
We have enough pretending and insincerity in the world. Be and just do you. Trying to please others is a recipe for unhappiness. Live your life, not anyone else's. Almost nothing is more fulfilling (and attractive) than this.
You see - it really isn't about living your life in such a way to make guys fall in love with you. It's about falling in love with yourself, with your life.
This list could instead be called "21 things to make you fall completely in love with your life."
Sure, it's fun to think you can turn guys' heads, but what's more worthwhile is to be completely confident and happy with the woman you are, whether or not a guy currently recognizes you.
Take these 21 points as ways to help you live a full life and as reasons to love the woman you are.
