When you first start dating someone, you want to talk to them all the time. You want to know what they're doing and if they're thinking about you. If your relationship is healthy, that feeling never goes away. No matter how much you and your partner love and enjoy each other’s company, you can’t be together all the time. Sometimes life requires you to spend time apart, even if it’s just for a few hours. If you find that you can’t stop thinking about your significant other’s face and just how much you miss them when you’re apart, you can always send your partner texts to let them know you’re thinking about them.
Whether they’re the first thing on your mind in the morning or the last thing you’re thinking about as you go to sleep, or any time in between, a text will make it clear that they’re on your mind and in your heart. A text letting your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, or wife know that you’re thinking about them could brighten their day and make them feel loved. If you aren’t sure where to get started, here’s some inspiration for what to say.
When You First Wake Up
- “Good morning, babe! I was just dreaming about you.”
- “Good morning, love. I can’t wait to see you later.”
- “Morning! I was lying in the bed wishing I was snuggled up to you right now.”
- “Good morning, darling. I hope you slept well and had sweet dreams. I’ll talk to you later today.”
When You Miss Them
- “I miss you so much! I can’t wait to see you later and give you a big hug.”
- “I was just thinking about how cute you are, and it made me start to miss you, like a lot.”
- “So, I already miss you. I guess I must like you a lot or something.”
- “I miss your face. Let’s plan to see each other sometime this week.”
When Everything You Do Reminds You of Them
- “I just saw a fluffy dog, and it reminded me of your morning hair.”
- “[Insert friend’s name] was just telling me about her relationship drama, and it made me remember how lucky I am to have you in my life.”
- “Every time I think about you, it puts a smile on my face. I’ve been smiling a lot today.”
- “I just saw a funny meme on Instagram, and it made me think about you. I just sent it to you.”
When You Want to Text Them Just Because
- “Hey, I just wanted to say hi and tell you I’ve been thinking about you.”
- “Hey! I was just thinking about you and wanted to let you know just how amazing I think you are.
- “You’re cute. That’s it. That’s the text.”
- “Hey! I’ve got a pretty busy day ahead of me, but I wanted to say hey. I’ll text you when I have some free time.”
Texts That are Short and Sweet
- “Fun fact: I love you even more than when I started this sentence.”
- “I just tried picturing my life without you today. It really sucked, so I had to stop.”
- “You know how I know you’re my person? Because something awesome just happened, and I wanted to tell you first.”
- “I can’t stop smiling today, and it’s all your fault.”
Texts That are Serious and Sincere
- “I don’t think falling in love is an accident; it’s a choice. And I choose you yesterday, today, and tomorrow.”
- “ I was just reminiscing about [insert shared experience], and then I realized something; all of my best memories have something in common – I shared them with you.”
- “You’re my past, present, and future because I loved who you were when we met, I love who you are today, and I love who you’re shaping up to become.”
- “You’re the best thing that’s happened to me so far. I love you.”
Playful Texts
- “Quick question: If nothing lasts forever, can I be your nothing forever?”
- “If I texted you every time you were on my mind, I’d be blowing your phone up all day long.”
- “You know the way you feel when you’re starving, and the waiter finally brings out your food? That’s how you make me feel every day.”
- “Guess who my favorite person in the whole world is? After Spiderman, it’s definitely you.”
When You’re About to Go to Bed
- “Hey babe, I’m about to go to bed, but I just wanted to send you a quick message to say goodnight and that I’ll be dreaming of you.”
- “Hey, I’m in bed thinking about all the things I’m grateful for in my life, and you’re right at the very top of that list. Good night, babe.”
- “I’m very sleepy, but first, good night and sleep tight, my love.”
- “Good night, my love. I’ll dream fondly of you. We’ll talk again in the morning.”
Communication is a cornerstone of a healthy relationship. It would be best never to assume that your partner knows how you feel about them. Instead, take every opportunity to share your feelings with them. If you choose not to share your feelings with your significant other, they may start to feel like you don’t care and pull back from the relationship. Lack of communication is one of the biggest reasons that couples break up. To avoid breaking up with your partner, communicate what they mean to you and how they make you feel.
You never know how hearing your feelings can affect them. It’s also important to keep telling your partner how you think about them, even if you’ve been together for years. It can help keep the spark alive in your relationship. One of the best parts of caring for someone is getting to show them how you think about them and brightening their day. Reminding your loved ones of how much they mean to you and how they’re never far from your thoughts and your heart can be powerful. Sending a sweet text is an easy way to do just that.
