If your marriage is in a slump, you might be looking for ways to reignite the flame you once felt between you. Try doing something small (but impactful) to improve your marriage little by little each day. And if you're overwhelmed with wondering where to start, we've compiled a 30-day challenge for you.
There are two activities for each day of this challenge: complete the action for the day and write down one thing you love about your spouse on a small piece of paper. Compile these notes in a jar to give to your spouse at the end of the challenge.
If you're ready to transform your marriage, fill your month with these small acts of love:
Day 1
Kiss your spouse good morning
Day 2
Check in with your spouse during the day and ask if he or she needs anything
Day 3
Think of something positive about your spouse and mention it
Day 4
Let your spouse pick out a movie and watch it together
Day 5
Thank your spouse for something small
Day 6
Watch the sunset together
Day 7
Think from your spouse's perspective
Day 8
Ask your spouse what you can do to make their day easier
Day 9
Spend at least 15 minutes of uninterrupted time together (even if it's right before bed)
Day 10
Tell your spouse "I love you" with your actions
Day 11
Avoid saying or thinking anything negative about your spouse
Day 12
Plan a date night this month and mark it on the calendar
Day 13
Spend the entire evening with your spouse, even if it's something small and simple
Day 14
Tell your spouse how beautiful or handsome they look
Day 15
Ask your spouse what you can improve on, then focus on that aspect
Day 16
Think of something your spouse needs and do it
Day 17
Apologize when you hurt your spouse, no matter how small the issue
Day 18
Ask your spouse about their day and truly listen
Day 19
Cuddle on the couch
Day 20
If you've been holding on to a grudge, forgive your spouse
Day 21
Make your sweetheart's favorite meal
Day 22
Think of a couple you admire and do something they might do
Day 23
Hug your spouse three times
Day 24
Greet your spouse right when you or they come home
Day 25
Say, "I love you because..."
Day 26
Reminisce about your first date together
Day 27
Laugh together - watch a funny movie or play a silly game
Day 28
Ask your spouse about his or her goals
Day 29
Say, "I love being married to you because..."
Day 30
Give your spouse the love jar to open one note each day
Even if you and your spouse are as happy as can be, a marriage challenge is a fun way to maintain your strong bond. Try this challenge and add a few ideas of your own to keep showing your love each day.