Shelby's a sappy soul whisperer and sarcasm aficionado to 3 beautiful knuckleheads who have left her with an empty nest to ponder what the mom thing has (done to her) meant over the past 23 years. Read her open book of revelations, screw-ups, gaffs & joys at shelbyspear.com. She appreciates good vibes sent her way as she works on her first book.